Thursday, December 30, 2010

eat pray love

As a Christmas present to ourselves, we have come to beautiful Bali, and it is so much better than the Julia Roberts movie (which, yes, we watched while captive on the 20 hour flight here).  It's true, there  really are those verdant rice paddies and markets laden with rambutan, durian and papaya.  But thankfully no one here appears to be suffering from a bad case of mid-life crisis.

Ed has been trying to plan a trip to Bali for almost a decade.  But Nicole consistently rejected those plans because of anti-foreigner bombings in 2002 and 2005, anti-Chinese laws and violence or general Acts of God.  This year, however, our friend Jean-Marc opened up a touring company in Bali and, given that the whole world seems to be on a constant Orange Alert, we thought we'd give it try.  So far, it has been a holiday of eating, praying and loving.  But mostly eating.

Here's how we spent our first full day in Bali:

* eat:  We start every morning with a full Indonesian breakfast of Nasi Goreng (fried rice) or Mei Goreng (fried noodles) and fresh juices.  As they say, breakfast is the most important meal of the day.  Until you get to lunch.

* pray: We first visited a local priest's home where he receives visitors, conducts ceremonies, gives blessings and answers questions about your future.  There are actually four families that live in their compound and two priests.  We wore traditional sarongs and were blessed with coconut water infused with plumeria blossoms.  The priest said that Nicole and Ed were born on sacred days for Balinese Hindus and that we were a good life match (whew!).  He kept asking if there was anything we wanted to know about our future but, honestly, we feel pretty good about the general course of our lives, and knowing the future doesn't seem particularly helpful.  That's ok, too, he said.

* love:  Well, at least admire.  We next went to visit the Njana Tilem Gallery which was the wood carving workshop of a father and son who were famous for their modern, multi-dimensional sculptures in the 1930s and later the 1960s.  Indeed, over the years, hundreds came to apprentice themselves and have become masters in their own right.  The Tilem family and students carry on the tradition with enormous generousity, including providing materials and tools to students who cannot afford it.  They also gave us a lesson using soft soap and their carving tools.  Sophie was a particularly adept carver.  Ed sliced his thumb so that we could make use of our Neosporin.

* eat again:  Then it was time for our cooking lesson.  We learned how to make chicken satay and ground pork steamed in banana leaves.  There is a lot of elbow grease that goes into grinding the spices (even the pepper!) by hand.  Then, we ate.  Again.  And it was delicious.

* love again: This time in the form of massage, which both Ed and Nicole truly love.  We went to Spa Hati -- the commercial arm that generates income for the Bali Hati Foundation, which in turn provides job training and public health education for local Balinese.  How's that for good karma while working out the knots in your shoulders?

* eat, of course: At Bebek Bengil -- or, the Dirty Duck Diner -- which is much more appetizing then it sounds.  We had an exhausting day and only managed to get a block from home before finding this lavish outdoor restaurant laid out across a traditional garden.  The owners named it after a flock of ducks walked over their newly laid floors with muddy webbed feet.  Of course, it specializes in traditional Balinese fare and delicious fried duck.

We are fighting our jet lag, but having a wonderful time.  Here are pics from the first day.  We'll send more soon.

Wednesday, December 29, 2010

Messages washed up on the beach


Christmas Eve on the beach.  Messages of love and thankfulness for soccer and family.

Friday, September 24, 2010

Overheard

at our dinner table tonight discussing the existence of God.

Anna:  "I think I believe in God.  But, I mean, what does he look like?  Is he some guy tap dancing on the moon?  I just don't know."

Saturday, August 28, 2010

Best fact ever

Let's be honest.  You probably don't remember much about President Taft.  Not that he was the instigator of "Dollar Diplomacy" or that he was the only President to also later serve as Chief Justice of the Supreme Court or that, at 300 pounds, he was the heaviest President to ever hold office.  And, in honesty, maybe you don't really care.

But we are thankful for at least one act of the Taft Administration: in 1909, President Taft had the foresight to protect Zion Canyon as a national monument, thus preserving magnificent 150-million-year-old sandstone formations so that Sophie and Anna could oooh and aaah over them last week.

Ok, but all that history was just to whet your appetite.  Here is the best fact ever:

Rain water filters down through these pre-historic sandstone cliffs until it hits a bed of impermeable slate and then it starts to move sideways.  That's what we see as "seepage" or "weeping" from the rocks.  Like this:

Scientists estimate that the water is between 800 and 1200 years old.  What!?!?!  How cool is that?

And if you think that's neat, you'll be even more impressed to hear that the girls walked more than a mile in 100 degree heat to stand in the shower of these ancient waters.  To keep cool, we did a fantastic hike (recommended by our friend, Mike) through The Narrows, which is a hike through a river and between sheer rock cliffs.  You need special but unglamorous shoes like these:


In some places, the girls were up to their chests in the water which made for a cool walk in all senses of the word

Anna & Sophie in the river:

And on the rocks:
 
 And sunning themselves like lizards:

And for those who like live action:



It was all spectactular.  See our full album of Zion here.

Can't believe our summer's already coming to a close!  Hope you're all enjoying your last days too!

Saturday, August 21, 2010

Leaving Las Vegas

We've been waiting all summer for a fun family vacation.  So, like good parents, we took the kids to Vegas.  And, as better parents, we beat a path out of there within 36 hours.  What can we say?  The Southwest tickets were cheap.

We did see a couple shows (Phantom of the Opera on the way in; O on the way out).  In fact, there were a lot of sights that we don't ususally find at home.  Billboards for babes, guns and bail bonds, for example.  Sophie saw a billboard for "The Thunder Down Under" with a lot of bare-chested men in tight jeans.  "What's that advertisement for, Mommy?" she asked.  "If they're trying to sell clothes, they're not wearing very much of it."  What is there to say?  "Good point," I told her.

It was 108 degrees in Vegas and we hit the pool at 8 am -- a pool that is only 3 1/2 feet at its deepest and lined with beach chairs at the shallow ends.  Which is to say, these are pools in which to be seen, not to swim.  That, of course, explains the boys with the rhinestone-studded D&G sunglasses and the girls in sequined bikinis.  "Why do the girls wear so much make up?" asked our observant daughters.  "It will just come off in the pool." Yet another good point.

By mid-day, even the pool was too hot, and the girls were tired of the craps tables, so we headed out to Hoover Dam.  Other than being 115 degrees outside (but a water-cooled 75 degrees inside), the dam is very impressive.  Although it generates enough hydroelectric power to serve 1.3 million people in Nevada, Arizona and California, the electricity is just a by-product.  The primary purpose of the dam is to manage ebb and flow of the Colorado River, ensuring that desert inhabitants in those three states keep their golf courses healthy.

After a day and a half, Ed made the excellent decision to leave quickly and get on the road to Zion National Park.  Phew.  Grungy hippies in Keenes, carrying their eco-friendly Sigg water bottles.  Not a rhinestone or sequined bikini in sight.  We felt so much more at home.

Friday, August 20, 2010

Da kine surf


We wish it were endless summer, but it's all passing too fast.  We spent Fourth of July at the beach, bringing our friend Louis along for the ride.  Sophie, Louie and Ed took some longboards out at Cardiff State Beach.  Sophie caught just about every wave.  Mom is thinking sponsorships.  It's kind of tiny but, check it:

Sunday, May 2, 2010

Poetry Cafe

April was National Poetry Month.  In case you missed it, Anna wanted to share a poem she wrote for her Poetry Cafe.

Inside My Heart

Inside my heart live two crazy hobbling cousins
One creative sister
One absolutely charming mother
Two gladly giving great grandparents
One chuckling dad
One super loving grandmother
And one awesome grandfather
All with me!